Anal sex can be a thrilling and intense experience. That’s why gay men tend to love it so much, and why there are so many gay men who describe themselves as “bottoms”. The pleasure that they derive from it is so deep, so intense that some are exclusively bottom and will refuse to penetrate their partner.
However, if you have never experienced anal sex but are curious then there are a few things you can do to prepare. It is also important to remember that this goes for men as well as women. The anus has a lot of nerve endings and can, therefore, create some wonderful sensations. It also doesn’t have to hurt.
Preparing on Your Own
When getting into anal play, it is important to do it with someone that you trust. And who would you trust more than yourself? Practicing on your own is a great way to get to know your body. By stocking up on different sex toys you can ensure that you will get the whole spectrum! One of the most important things not to forget, however, is lube.
Lube doesn’t have to be anything special. It must simply be something that your skin won’t react to horribly. Get one that you know will keep your skin intact. You can also get lubes which have a very pleasant tickling sensation, so this is also something that you might want to look out for.
Get Stuck In
When practicing anal play on yourself, it is good to start out small. In order to get used to the sensation, try not to use any toys that vibrate. You want to know what it feels like to have something in that area. Play around with it and see what is most comfortable. Move it from side to side. There is a lot that can be done. You can even get into a typical “fucking” motion by moving it back and forth.
Once you are comfortable with a particular size, you can then move on to something bigger. Getting to something the size of an actual penis is usually best, as this will prepare you for a hot session with someone else!
The Main Act
When you finally do have someone to fuck you in the ass, you need to be very careful and ensure that the two of you communicate properly. In fact, communication is one of the things that will make the whole experience even better. What you need to do is explain to your partner just what you are comfortable with, and maybe give you a warning if they are trying to change anything.
Over time, it will get easier and you will soon find that you can’t get enough of it! A lot of people tend to have bad experiences with anal the first time around and this is what stops them from going further. However, if you communicate and prepare yourself then there is no telling what joy you could derive!