Dirty talk is probably one of the most common types of sexual behaviours that is used to enhance the mood when getting down to the deed: in fact, it can sometimes be seen as a fetish in and of itself. This is evidenced by the various “phone sex” operators you see both online and being advertised on television. To many, the whole concept of it comes naturally: others, however, may have a more difficult time getting into it. So, what to do?
Find Out What You’re Comfortable With
When it comes to any kind of sex, you need to know what you’re comfortable with as well as what turns you on: however, this is going to take a period of trial and error. This is why it’s important to have a partner that you know you can trust: regardless of what happens, or how it turns out, you will know that there is no need to feel ashamed or embarrassed.
If you feel that you may be lacking a little in the creativity department, don’t worry: there are plenty of online resources out there that can help give you the inspiration that you need! Naturally, you don’t have to copy this word-for-word: dirty talk can be improvised, depending on the situation.
One of the great things about dirty talk is that it can help to keep the spark alive in your relationship even when you and your partner end up spending a bit of time apart. You can keep things hot and frisky even when calling over Skype or on the phone – especially if both of you happen to be fond of role playing. So there is a lot that can be done, it’s just up to you to discover what works best!