Oral sex is nothing new, although there are a lot of different opinions about it. There are some people who absolutely detest giving it, but are very happy to be on the receiving end. Then there are those who don’t like receiving it, maybe because they find the whole concept of it to be rather off-putting. Whatever the case may be, oral sex still remains one of the “standards” of copulation. For this reason, it is still important to have an idea of it and how it affects your partner.

 

While this short guide is evidently aimed at women, men who give blow jobs to other men can also take a few hints from it. Generally speaking, men have a penis so will instinctively know a little more about what feels good. For ladies out there who want to know how to please their men properly, however, this is definitely a good place to start.

 

Before You Begin

Before beginning, remember that there are of course a few things you may not necessarily want coming into contact with the penis. The first and most obvious answer is the teeth: a little bit of scraping it enjoyed by some men, but these tend to be an exception to the rule. As a result, make sure to keep your teeth as far away from this sensitive part as possible.

 

Gentle Licking and Lips

The standard blow job is “sucking” on the penis, at least when it comes to the base action. However, many people tend to forget about how important the lips are. In fact, the lips can count for a lot of the pleasure that a man receives. It is a good idea to start off with moving the lips before going on to anything else. Don’t be afraid to use your hands, either.

 

The tongue is another part of the mouth that can really hype up the intensity of oral sex. Remember, the penis is also just as multi-faceted as the vagina or clitoris. Different forms of stimulation are going to produce different kinds of sensations and feelings. Licking the underside of the penis is probably going to produce the most feeling, but a pleasant tickling sensation can also be felt at the top.

 

Use Your Hands

Depending on the situation, you may want to employ the use of your hands. This can certainly help to move things along, especially if your man is taking a while to come. In fact, a mixture of a hand job and a blow job can end up working wonders. All you need to do is take the time to figure out what’s best.

 

Note: There’s nothing wrong with refusing to give a blow job, especially if the man refuses to go down on you. Sex is, after all, an exchange and about learning to please one another. So, don’t feel guilty for refusing to perform oral sex on a man if he doesn’t want to do it for you!