best sex positions for orgasm

 

Let it be known that you do NOT have to contort yourself into positions that can cause harm to you or your partner to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm. We are humans, not pretzels, and though some of us are flexible, that doesn’t apply to everyone. Also take into consideration your size – be it slender, curvy, plump, voluptuous, or just average for what position you’re thinking of trying. There are positions that slender and skinny ladies can get into that do not apply to those of us with a few extra love handles, trust me!

 

The type of orgasm you’re expecting can change depending on your libido or sex drive. If you have a low sex drive, chances are the positioning is the least of your worries. For those of you that have a higher sex drive, you might be tempted to pull out all the stops and turn yourself into a sex acrobat, flying through the air with no strings. Just be careful, no matter, and here is my list of some of the best sex positions for getting an orgasm.

 

  1. Doggie style–you’re on your knees in front of your partner who will have full visual access to your backside, and full access to going in as deep as he can. There are always variations to any sex position, for instance, instead of spreading your knees for him to gain access, try putting your legs closer together so that he has to work at getting inside. Doggie style in my opinion is the best for anal sex as well, but you may have a better way. This position pretty much guarantees a great orgasm for both of you.
  2. Missionary–by all means, if the standard missionary position gives you better orgasms, then stick with it. If not, try some variations to it like propping a pillow under your butt, giving him deeper access to your sweet spot. Or lay on your back with your knees bent and around his waist, or even up on his shoulders. See which one works best for you.
  3. Reverse Cowgirl–same as you straddling him on top, but instead turn around with your backside facing him. The two angles between regular and reverse are completely different. He goes in deep either way, but this one also gives you access to his balls and your clit, playing with either will make things even more pleasurable. It also gives you even more control than even riding does. Instead of laying on the bed riding him, have him sit on a couch or chair for Reverse Cowgirl, he can either put his legs together or spread them apart, whichever feels better to you and him.
  4. Sideways–yep, I said it. Lay sideways and either he can enter in the same position you spoon in or you can lift one leg over his to give him better access. This one is a little harder if you’re a bigger lady and he’s not well-endowed but it can be done with a little shifting and moving around. Another way to succeed with this position is to lay on your side, then he gets between your legs and puts one of your legs on his shoulder while the other stays on the bed and your torso is still laying sideways, so you’re sideways but he’s not.
  5. On the edge of the counter or bed–technically that isn’t the name of it, but you get my point. You lay on the edge of the counter, or bed, make sure your butt is right at the edge, then lift both legs and plant them on his shoulders. He will be standing and able to penetrate deeply while holding your buttcheeks in his hands. Lots of variations to this, but this itself is a variation of the missionary position. And when he isn’t holding your buttcheeks, he’s either playing with your nipples or your clit or both, while edging you closer and closer to that orgasm.

 

Are there other positions to obtain the same results? Sure, but these are the top five that you will see all over the internet and most are pretty popular when you ask men or women what they like. Remember, if you want to have an even better orgasm than what you can achieve with these positions, bring out the toys and have a blast. Enjoy!